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 22:35 | 28/Jun/2008
Why do I still serve u?
Why do I still serve you? (Written by a Fourth generation, 24 year old Career Officer in the Indian Armed Forces, spurred by the report of the 6th pay commission and a heartless article written by a respectable" denizen of our great country in a national daily on the armed forces and the 6th pay commission). How you play with us, did you ever see? ... more...
 23:14 | 29/Mar/2008
CRACKS DONT MEND
CRACKS NEVER MEND(Disclaimer: 1. I dont claim that any issue discussed or solutions propounded in this blog are anything new or unknown to the readers. It"s the same old wine, in a recycled bottle. You are reading it at your own risk.2. Any resemblance to any person living or dead, or any actual incident is not purely coincidental, but just done wi... more...
 13:47 | 5/Feb/2008
TRANSFORMATION : THE RATIONAL TO THE (W)...
FOR ALL THOSE WHO ALWAYS PONDERED ON HOW AND WHY BEING RIGHT OR DOING RIGHT IS WRONG IN THIS WORLD.    I work on ships. I had been out at sea most of last year. But the sailing last July was different. It made me feel that I probably have been out at sea for my whole goddamn life! I had been thinking a lot… but it was just probably the combination ... more...
 17:32 | 3/Nov/2006
MY EXPERIMENTS WITH TRUTH
 INTRODUCTION. This is the part for those who come across this post first and are not privy to the previous posts, comments and counter comments. I do this deliberately. If you wish to read the whole post … click on the link given below.http://chosenone.rediffiland.com// scripts/xanadu_diary_view.php?postId=116 1626003(For my partners in crime…I sugg... more...
 06:44 | 2/Nov/2006
I HATE PMS...
Period (No pun intended!). more...
 23:23 | 23/Oct/2006
ARE WE A NATION OF IMPOTENTS?
A couple of weeks back, before I left Kochi on duty, I woke up in the morning pretty pissed off. I didn’t know the reason then. I still don’t know it now. But all events on that day just kept adding to my sense of disgust … at me … and the world around me at large.The newspapers were filled with the news of the Malegoan blasts. So many had died. Ir... more...
 14:35 | 14/Sep/2006
Tag Game
Here's a little get to know me fun game...be a sport and please keep it going.Here's what you need to do...cut and paste this entire blog (yep...no copyright!) and answer the questions and paste it on your page...at the end name the person you want to tag and leave a message for the person with your link on his/her guestbook page...The next tag you... more...
 11:21 | 14/Sep/2006
Shayari from Fanaa
This was actually a forward that i recieved.. and no matter what opinion one may have about the film... the story line.. or the actors... you have to hand it to them...the Shayari was awesome!!E Khuda Aaj Ye Faisla Karde,Use Mera ya Mujhe Uska Karde.Bahut Dukh Sahe He Maine,Koi Khusi Ab Toh Muqadar Karde.Bahot Muskil Lagta Hai Usse Duur Rehna,Judai... more...
 23:21 | 13/Sep/2006
CONCLUDING PART....
IS THERE A WAY TO THE WOMAN'S HEART? PART IIIThis is the last of the three part series. I’ve got a reasonably decent response (if I say anything else, it’d break my heart!!). I really hope my thoughts have atleast got people to question where their relationship stands… and whether it is so difficult to get it back on track.  As for the comments, th... more...
 16:43 | 13/Sep/2006
HOW ROMANTIC CAN U BE??
Here's the deal. A day of your choice... at any dream location. Money is no constraint (but for romance ... does that matter?!). All that can be variable. With your hubby / wife / partner (sorry buddy boys…that isn’t variable!!). No strings attached. No kids to bother you. No need to cook meals for your mother-in-law. No laptops No office work carr... more...
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 Sameera Nandi | 16:57 | 23/Jun/2008
Friends: (397)  | City: Mumbai  | Interests: Enjoying the rain...
The week that was
 Well, the euphoria of being on HP is wearing off and I am back to what I usually do. Blog about my weekend. I am guessing that I got to HP because my post was something to do with rains. Just thinking. Rains seem to have left Mumbai and it has been dry since almost 10 days now. A pity really, considering I was so excited about the rains and all. T...  more...
 velan | 12:59 | 25/Feb/2008
Friends: (379)  | City: Chennai  | Interests: Music,Sports, Che...
How Heavy is a Glass of Water
A lecturer, when explaining stress management to an audience, raised a glass of water and asked, "How heavy is this glass of water?" Answers called out ranged from 20g to 500g. The lecturer replied, "The absolute weight doesn't matter. It depends on how long you try to hold it.""If I hold it for a minute, that's not a problem. If I hold it for an h...  more...
 DENSON JOSEPH | 22:39 | 27/May/2008
Friends: (721)  | City: Delhi  | Interests: Fitness
AARUSHI MURDER CASE
Assuming Dr Talwar is innocent,I am just forced to think about the trauma which this broken hearted father might be going through.Here is a dead soul,who has just lost his dear daugther, his pain had not even subsided that he was arrested, accused & stigmatised as the "killer father", and to cap it all;is now currently being tormented, tortured & t...  more...
 siddhartha m... | 16:38 | 13/Dec/2007
Friends: (561)  | City: OUTER SPACE  | Interests: travelling into t...
A JOURNEY COMES TO AN END IN LIFE
Dear friends,Time has now come to say goodbye to you all. My spaceship from my planet has arrived.Like every good thing in life,this stint was also temporary in nature.I knew all along that I will have to go one day but it was difficult to reconcile in mind.But what to do?Our life is like that.When I first joined this I land ,I was not knowing much...  more...
 swati naik | 10:08 | 2/Dec/2007
Friends: (8)  | City: Storyland  | Interests: I tell stories......
Leave me alone
Leave me alone here,Where the shadows of the sun tickle my feet,Where sequestered moons of my twenty years, They rub their silver scales against lonely wounds. Here, where the night skies wallow in my smallness.I will worship my own godsI will fight my own demonsHere, the evening prayer chants carry my soulHere, the temple’s inner sanctum beckonsOh...  more...
 urvi s | 22:04 | 25/Feb/2007
Friends: (160)  | City: Jamnagar  | Interests: Pursuing peace an...
Tagged !!!
My dear friend DK tagged me few days back. We feel we know ourselves quite well, but after these questions one realises we need to know ourself more !! Thanx DK, it was like looking inside me….. Three things that scare me Travelling in flights Addition of years to my age Closed spaces (quite claustrophobic) Three people who make me laugh Saas bahu ...  more...
 ZEUS ZEUS | 22:23 | 9/Jan/2008
Friends: (570)  | City: Kolkata  | Interests: nothing. absolute...
'Away From Her' - A Review
An aged wife tells her husband,“You could have just driven away without a care in the worldfor me, and forsaken me”With a pause pregnant with unsaid emotions he whispers,“Not a chance.”Inthese two lines which appear to be so unambiguously banal in content at first glance there might lay the ultimate test and triumph of  an alliance forged over a li...  more...
 Arindam Sen | 17:04 | 8/Nov/2006
Friends: (313)  | City: Ahmedabad  | Interests: Management
Last post in the interview series!
CAT experiences of IIMA students - I received quite a good feedback for the interviews. CAT aspirants have now a guideline and benchmark to follow. I remember we were quite unsure about how many to attempt! Some of us screwed up CAT just because they had no idea how many is adequate and ended up trying for the impossible. Now you have a definite pl...  more...
 Simran Kumar | 23:33 | 19/Mar/2008
Friends: (295)  | City: Sharjah  | Interests: Dancing , Travell...
Thank uuuuuuuuu
Dear ILanders, Thank you so much my dear pals....Cuming on the Home Page after a long timeeee...its feels great and more when I get your congrats....man...it feels greattttttttttttttttt   Love you all.............  more...
 alpana | 09:22 | 23/Jun/2008
Friends: (313)  | City: NOIDA  | Interests: painting, reading...
phir mann mein aaya khyaal aapka kal shaam  jab badaloan ney phelaayi thi zameen par apni chaaoan... dur samundar mein khel rahi thi lehereinaur phooloan key chehoraon par thimeethi muskaan.. hawa bhi thi chancal us pal mein uskey bhi hotaon par tha koi madhur gaan phir aayi yaad mujhey aapki  kal shaam... kahaan ho aap tha ek prashan merey mann me...  more...
 Kishya S | 10:34 | 29/May/2007
Friends: (85)  | City: Pune  | Interests: Living, Talking, ...
Reflections
Everything in life is temporary. Darkness of the night; or a bright day Even sunrise is temporary; so is sunset. So if things are going good, enjoy it because it won't last forever. And if things are going bad, don't worry. Because it won't last forever either. Everything passes by.  more...
 Vinita Aleyas | 08:54 | 22/Feb/2007
Friends: (6)  | City: Cochin  | Interests: reading, writing,...
God you have enlarged me in my time of d...
Today's Scripture"God you have enlarged me in my time of distress." (Psalm 4:1)Today's WordBefore you are going to see your dreams come to pass, you have to be prepared for promotion. The way you respond in your time of adversity shows your readiness to take the next step. Believing that God will sustain you during your difficult time builds your f...  more...
 monu g | 17:09 | 19/Jun/2008
Friends: (193)  | City: This Heavenly Planet  | Interests: To Live Life To I...
Performance Evaluations
On Evaluating Employee Performance (From a Manager to an Employee)I admit it. I have a love/hate attitude about performance evaluations. I love it when you do great work and I get to tell you, and perhaps reward you for your contributions. On the other hand, I hate it when you don’t do great work, and I not only have to tell you, but also deal with...  more...
 Piyush Mumbai | 22:13 | 14/Nov/2006
Friends: (147)  | Interests: Music, Movies & M...
The Pearls of Wisdom
Change - Making it POSSIBLEIf you always do what you have always done, you will always get what you've already got.In order to move forward, we must change.· Discontentment with your current state.The first step in the process of change is to not want to be where youcurrently are. If you are overweight, you must say, "I will not acceptthis anymore....  more...
 Kanchan Bhat... | 11:18 | 28/Jun/2008
Friends: (45)  | City: ...  | Interests: zzz!
You Think You Are ALWA...
You are  Thong Again!  Thong thung blewWent the wordsOf Neil diamond’s thongAnd the chordsAre Nothing new! Now for the Bong’s ThongHis thongs have thingsThat don’t get alongLets talk of SunjuWho is Not a PunjuWhose thongsCan hardly hide joyous songsAnd those smell rather strongAll day long!So thingThong Thung BlewEverybody nose oneAnd others who do...  more...
 arvind srinivas | 07:31 | 22/Nov/2007
Friends: (55)  | City: Bangalore  | Interests: as of now...Blogg...
Hello All.....
Hello All,here i am....Again making a comeback....I guess i am the King of Comebacks...lol...Anyways i am here for a purpose,a reason i guess....and hope u guys will support me..I guess everyone here know that i work for Hp...for all those who dunno...this is the place where i work and enjoy 12hrs of being outside my home sweet home....We have laun...  more...
 Trishna Mumbai | 16:43 | 20/Jun/2008
Friends: (9)  | City: Mumbai  | Interests: ...
Season of Acceptance
  It’s been a long two months. The vacant look in mum’s eyes is slowly giving way to a twinkle – very slowly but surely.  I suppose letting go of 40 years of togetherness is a tall order for anyone. When she reached Mumbai and I saw her, my whole being froze up. A forehead sans the familiar vermillion and the mangalsutra gone, her appearance gave a...  more...
 praina shetty | 09:37 | 7/May/2008
Friends: (414)  | City: The other side of heaven  | Interests: dunn bludie bug m...
Dire Straits - Part III (Final Part)
The place from where I was standing I could see the complete set-up. Every thing was so bollywood type. The mandap was decorated with marigolds, roses and tulips. The rice-lights were dancing too-n-fro in the most synchronic way. Every one was dressed as richly and as sparkly as they could. There was the rushing and hushing of the ghar-ke-buzurg, w...  more...
 A S | 21:53 | 23/Jun/2008
Friends: (421)  | City: Pune  | Interests: Food, Books, Movi...
Am off to Bangalore
Well folks, i am off to Bangalore tomorrow.  I take off at the unearthly hour of 7.50 a.m. which means that i have to leave my house at 6.30, while all of you'll are busy snoozing!! :(I will be in Bangalore all of this week.  (Come back on sat morning) and though i already have way too many outstation friends a few more can not hurt. :) so anyone w...  more...
 dee vine | 15:12 | 18/Jun/2008
Friends: (157)  | City: Delhi  | Interests: eat out, go out, ...
for old times' sake
Visiting my page after months ... have had little time to indulge in leisurely stuff like blogs. Been working hard and partying harder ... ahhh, back to life! Working, Mothering, Travelling, Loving, Facebooking, Orkuting, FlickRing, Housekeeping, Waxing (now waning), Binge-ing (now fasting), Socializing, Drinking, Saving, Spending ....   all but bl...  more...
 udita chaudhary | 18:06 | 3/Sep/2007
Friends: (243)  | City: Delhi  | Interests: self-improvement,...
 "What a Wonderful World"-Louis Armstrong“ I see trees of green, red roses too I see them bloom for me and youAnd I think to myself, what a wonderful worldI see skies of blue and clouds of white The bright blessed day, the dark sacred night And I think to myself, what a wonderful world”The soulful rendering of this song evokes vivid images of a vib...  more...
 shipra mittal | 21:12 | 21/Dec/2006
Friends: (49)  | City: Delhi  | Interests: READING.CHATTING,...
Small Wonder
Hi...posting after a loooooooong time...n im crossing my fingers ...hoping that my writing kills haven't rusted to oblivion....N wat im going to write about isn't a personal experience...but i've tried to explore those emotions...so wat u waiting for....gear up!!!A terrifying shriek followed by a sharp wail.... and lots of beaming faces congratulat...  more...
 debashree roy | 12:12 | 13/Nov/2006
Friends: (192)  | City: Calcutta  | Interests: painting, reading...
Did you know them all?
Have you ever faced questions related to your religion and did you know the answers to all of them? Could you really defend and support the religion you follow and be proud of  being who you are? Recently I came across some questions related to Hinduism and found the answers to them. Would like to share them in my blog.What is the significance of t...  more...
 JESSICA SINGH | 09:49 | 13/Sep/2007
Friends: (860)  | City: Ever heard of Nadir ?  | Interests: blogging ...and t...
Sleepless in ......
I have always been a dreamer.But, these days I am not even able to sleep properly. A constant irritation itches on in my mind and I know not where it comes from. As a child, our own Doctor Uncle used to point out that diagnosis was pivotal to medication. I somehow found a deeper meaning in those words in connection to our daily lives even when I wa...  more...
 Friendly Ghost | 12:02 | 9/May/2008
Friends: (351)  | City: Mumbai  | Interests: Our economists & ...
Our world is coming unravelled
I'm continually amazed by a kind of public blindness to the obvious realities around us. I don't want to go into details, arguments, justifications etc. because they obscure the big picture. I don't want to talk about global warming, unsustainable growth, extinction of species etc. because they seem like distant theoretical stuff to us.I'm stating ...  more...
 sathya naray... | 06:14 | 2/Jun/2008
Friends: (8)  | City: Juffair  | Interests: Sample blogs
Becoming a housewife myself
Living alone needs a heart of North Pole adventurer and more so in a large flat after being in a family. Suddenly you are on your own for every damn thing.First, I need to switch on the motor for pumping the water to the overhead. Here we do not get Corporation water and our water needs are met from a 30 feet deep bore. It takes over 20 minutes to ...  more...
 Reshma Thakkar | 16:13 | 28/Jun/2008
Friends: (2269)  | City: Mumbai  | Interests: Enjoying life as ...
EMOTIONS
Emotions cause you pain and they actually dictate behaviour to you.In other words when you are emotional you are no longer in control.For example, when you are excited you might think excitement is good.You cant actually think clearly.The emotion of excitement takes over and leads you to act.Its not always the best action that is born from exciteme...  more...
 Joy Kaidharath | 09:07 | 21/Nov/2007
Friends: (1468)  | City: Mumbai  | Interests: Social upliftment
This MAY BE LAST POST FROM ME, IT ALL WI...
This may be my last post, depending on the out come of the decision of Justice Radhakrishnan and Justice Dalvi at 2.30 p.m.  Case detail is given in the image which is given at the end.If this is the last post, then see you in the next world (if what the religions teach is truth).  If not, then it does not make any difference, because then, we will...  more...
 Sandhya Suri | 21:47 | 21/Jan/2008
Friends: (658)  | City: Jaipur  | Interests: Life
Smirk
Wandering…The dark alleys of the mind’s deepest corridorsResounding… Crying…Grasping the folds of the silken shawl of memoriesSearching… Seeking…Truths too bitter to tell, too smattered with the bloodSpreading… Covering…Hiding the realities, the ignorant bliss of a heartless mindSalvaging… Begging…For redemption from the knowledge that defies the s...  more...